Pick up Girls In A Club
Most guys don’t understand women, or even how to pick up girls in a club. The night scene is not something that is easy for everyone to be good at. In fact being able to successfully navigate your way around a night club can be quite intimidating for most people. On top of not really being a night person at all, you have the added intimidation of “women” the one thing that has confused guy for millennia. This is going to be your bible on how to pick up girls in a club, and how to do it with style.
The most important thing you have to have, when picking up girls in a club or anywhere, is confidence. This is a multi-attribute technique: by this I mean it’s not just the way you talk. Most guy who think they have confidence, actually lack in the department. The reason for most guys lack in display of confidence is because they only focus on a specific aspect. If one is to successfully learn how to pick up girls in a club, you must understand that women pickup on subtle cues in everything you do: The way you talk, the way you walk, your body gestures, your clothes, and your voice. If you do not have all of these aspects perfected, you immediately send negative sexual signals to the female brain and this is what will get you in the dreaded “ nice guy zone.”
How does one obtain confidence, when a guy doesn’t even understand what he is doing wrong? It is really a lot easier than you think, and once you master this trick I am about to tell you will no longer have trouble with learning how to pick up girls in a club or any setting for that matter.
How To Pickup Girls In A Club
The trick is this: be the alpha. Be the top dog with everything you do, dress sharper than every other guy, smell better, be better groomed, be funnier, and be more outgoing. Women love being wooed by a sexy smart guy who leads the conversation, but they get turned off when you are that needy looking beta boy in the background not sure of what to say. How do you become this alpha dog? Well are many different ways to do this, and it takes lots of discipline. The magical secret to becoming an alpha is by imitating an alpha. We must constantly strive to become the image we want to be, if we want others to see us this way.
Imitating an alpha male is really easy, think of a really attractive guy to women, and be that guy. Examples are guys like: Channing Tatum, Paul Walker and Ryan Reynolds. ( Don’t believe these guys are sexy, ask your girlfriend.) The best part about being attractive is that you don’t have to look like these guys, you just have so be able to assert your alpha-ness the same way they do. Be confident, act confident, talk like you’re the most interesting thing around town and you know it. At the same time don’t be afraid to stop, listen and take notice of things she enjoys. Its confident but sensitive that drives the women wild.
How does one use this in a club setting? Easy! Next time you walk up to that hottie sitting by the bar, become that sexy guy in your mind, pick a topic of conversation and lead it like you know everything. Confident men are also not afraid to say what is on their mind, don’t be afraid to tell her she’s wrong about something but also don’t be afraid to compliment her (just don’t kiss her ass) Once you get your alpha speech on par, keep in mind your body language: have a strong posture, be open and aloof, and be comfortable in your own shoes.
Follow these tips outlined you are well on your way in learning how to pick up girls in a club, and anywhere else you may roam, don’t forget to read my article on “alpha body language”, for more tips and lessons about being a real man.